Victim 2 Victor: Healing Trauma & Building Real Love
Welcome to Victim 2 Victor - the space where healing from trauma becomes lived, embodied change.
I’m Anu Verma - trauma-informed coach, podcaster, executive producer, author, and survivor of childhood and relational trauma.
Through my work, I support people who are ready to stop repeating painful relationship patterns and start building lives - and love - rooted in safety, self-trust, and confidence.
Inside this podcast and my coaching work, I help you:
• Understand how trauma shapes attraction and relationship dynamics
• Calm your nervous system and rebuild emotional safety
• Break cycles of overthinking, people-pleasing, and emotionally unavailable love
• Transform survival patterns into grounded self-leadership
You’ll hear honest conversations, lived stories of healing, and practical tools you can apply in real life - from nervous system regulation and somatic practices to rebuilding self-worth and rewriting your relationship blueprint.
If listening resonates and you’re ready for deeper, personalised support, I work with clients inside my 12-Week Victim 2 Victor Coaching Program, where we heal at the root - not the surface - and create lasting change.
✨ Ways to work with me or explore further:
Book a confidential discovery call:
https://calendly.com/v2vhealingjourney
Explore The Chemistry Trap - a self-reflection tool to spot and break repeating relationship patterns:
https://victim2victor.net/the-chemistry-trap/
Connect with me on social media:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2v
Access all resources:
https://linktr.ee/healing.journeyy
You are not broken. You were conditioned - and conditioning can be healed.
You deserve a future that feels calm, connected, and deeply aligned.
Let’s get there together ✨
Victim 2 Victor: Healing Trauma & Building Real Love
When Reality Shifts: Addiction, Recovery & the Science of Seeing More
In this profound episode of Victim 2 Victor, we sit down with Tom Matte, founder of Upsight Vision, whose life-altering journey through addiction, psychosis, and recovery unlocked an extraordinary way of seeing.
Once a successful advertising executive, Tom’s world collapsed when cocaine addiction triggered a severe mental health crisis. But in rebuilding his life, something unexpected emerged: a radical shift in perception that allows him to see holographic imagery around individuals-symbolic visual fields that reveal subconscious patterns, emotional blockages, hidden strengths, and unrealised potential.
Now studied by neuroscientists and the Institute of Noetic Sciences, Tom’s work sits at the intersection of trauma, neuroscience, intuition, and human evolution. In this conversation, we explore what Upsight Vision really is, how trauma can act as a catalyst for expanded awareness, and why the future of insight may lie beyond what technology - or even language - can capture.
Tom shares how his Holographic Readings help individuals gain clarity and emotional release, and how organizations use this intuitive intelligence to unlock innovation and alignment in ways AI never could. We also dive into his memoir, Jesus Goes to Hollywood: A Memoir of Madness, and the deeper message behind his work: that there is far more happening in our inner world than we’ve been taught to see.
This episode is an invitation to question perception, redefine recovery, and explore what may be possible when we learn to truly see ourselves.
Follow Tom Matte and find out more about Upsight vision:
https://www.instagram.com/tommatte_iseethingsyoudont/
Connect with me:
Take the diagnostic tool kit to stop repeating patterns in your relationships: https://victim2victor.net/the-chemistry-trap/
Book a call with me: http://calendly.com/v2vhealingjourney
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2v
Access all resources: https://linktr.ee/healing.journeyy