Victim 2 Victor: Healing Trauma & Building Real Love
Welcome to Victim 2 Victor - the space where healing from trauma becomes lived, embodied change.
I’m Anu Verma - trauma-informed coach, podcaster, executive producer, author, and survivor of childhood and relational trauma.
Through my work, I support people who are ready to stop repeating painful relationship patterns and start building lives - and love - rooted in safety, self-trust, and confidence.
Inside this podcast and my coaching work, I help you:
• Understand how trauma shapes attraction and relationship dynamics
• Calm your nervous system and rebuild emotional safety
• Break cycles of overthinking, people-pleasing, and emotionally unavailable love
• Transform survival patterns into grounded self-leadership
You’ll hear honest conversations, lived stories of healing, and practical tools you can apply in real life - from nervous system regulation and somatic practices to rebuilding self-worth and rewriting your relationship blueprint.
If listening resonates and you’re ready for deeper, personalised support, I work with clients inside my 12-Week Victim 2 Victor Coaching Program, where we heal at the root - not the surface - and create lasting change.
✨ Ways to work with me or explore further:
Book a confidential discovery call:
https://calendly.com/v2vhealingjourney
Explore The Chemistry Trap - a self-reflection tool to spot and break repeating relationship patterns:
https://victim2victor.net/the-chemistry-trap/
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Access all resources:
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You are not broken. You were conditioned - and conditioning can be healed.
You deserve a future that feels calm, connected, and deeply aligned.
Let’s get there together ✨
Victim 2 Victor: Healing Trauma & Building Real Love
From Trauma to Trust: The Power of Relational Healing
In this insightful episode of Victim 2 Victor, we are joined by Arham Abtahi, a psychotherapist and researcher specialising in trauma recovery and integrative psychotherapy. Arham supports individuals navigating the effects of childhood trauma, abuse, cultural displacement, and complex relational wounds - helping them rebuild safety, trust, and a sense of self that trauma once fractured.
With a warm and grounded approach, Arham blends psychological theory with human connection, emphasising that healing is not about “fixing” what is broken, but remembering and reconnecting with what has always been whole. We explore the many forms of trauma, how it shapes the nervous system and sense of identity, and why the therapeutic relationship itself can become a deeply reparative experience.
This conversation offers practical insights, compassion, and hope for anyone on their own healing journey.
In this episode, we discuss:
- What trauma really is - and what it is not
- How trauma lives in the body and shapes emotional patterns
- Why integrative psychotherapy allows for deeper healing
- The role of trust, safety, and relationship in trauma recovery
- Cultural sensitivity and why healing is not “one-size-fits-all”
- How survivors can cultivate self-compassion and resilience
Whether you’re healing from past experiences or supporting someone who is, this episode invites you to slow down, deepen your understanding, and remember that recovery is not linear - but always possible.
Connect with Arham:
https://www.abtahicounselling.co.uk/
https://www.instagram.com/arhamabtahi/
Connect with me:
Take the diagnostic tool kit to stop repeating patterns in your relationships: https://victim2victor.net/the-chemistry-trap/
Book a call with me: http://calendly.com/v2vhealingjourney
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2v
Access all resources: https://linktr.ee/healing.journeyy