Victim 2 Victor: Healing Trauma & Building Real Love
Welcome to Victim 2 Victor - the space where healing from trauma becomes lived, embodied change.
I’m Anu Verma - trauma-informed coach, podcaster, executive producer, author, and survivor of childhood and relational trauma.
Through my work, I support people who are ready to stop repeating painful relationship patterns and start building lives - and love - rooted in safety, self-trust, and confidence.
Inside this podcast and my coaching work, I help you:
• Understand how trauma shapes attraction and relationship dynamics
• Calm your nervous system and rebuild emotional safety
• Break cycles of overthinking, people-pleasing, and emotionally unavailable love
• Transform survival patterns into grounded self-leadership
You’ll hear honest conversations, lived stories of healing, and practical tools you can apply in real life - from nervous system regulation and somatic practices to rebuilding self-worth and rewriting your relationship blueprint.
If listening resonates and you’re ready for deeper, personalised support, I work with clients inside my 12-Week Victim 2 Victor Coaching Program, where we heal at the root - not the surface - and create lasting change.
✨ Ways to work with me or explore further:
Book a confidential discovery call:
https://calendly.com/v2vhealingjourney
Explore The Chemistry Trap - a self-reflection tool to spot and break repeating relationship patterns:
https://victim2victor.net/the-chemistry-trap/
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You are not broken. You were conditioned - and conditioning can be healed.
You deserve a future that feels calm, connected, and deeply aligned.
Let’s get there together ✨
Victim 2 Victor: Healing Trauma & Building Real Love
From Genocide Survivor to Global Healer | Transforming Pain into Purpose
In this moving episode of Victim 2 Victor, we welcome Claire Marie Ingabire - author, genocide survivor, certified coach, NLP practitioner, and founder of Hearts Mend Together.
Claire’s story is one of unimaginable loss and extraordinary resilience. As a survivor of the 1994 genocide against the Tutsis in Rwanda, she lost her entire family and carried the weight of grief and trauma for decades - even facing multiple suicide attempts. Yet, through years of deep inner work, she transformed her suffering into purpose, becoming a beacon of healing and hope for others.
Today, Claire helps trauma survivors across the globe reframe their pain, reclaim their power, and embrace the truth that healing is always possible. She is also the author of two powerful books: Untold Pain, a memoir of survival and healing, and The Love That Led Me Home, a poetic exploration of love, loss, and spiritual rebirth.
✨ In this episode, Claire shares:
• Her personal journey of surviving the Rwandan genocide
• The turning points that helped her move from despair to healing
• How NLP, coaching, and spirituality became tools for transformation
• The importance of gratitude and mindset in trauma recovery
• Her mission to help others transform wounds into wisdom
Claire’s message is clear: even in devastation, healing and rebirth are possible.
📚 Books: Untold Pain & The Love That Led Me Home
🌍 Learn more: https://www.heartsmendtogether.com/
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Connect with me:
Take the diagnostic tool kit to stop repeating patterns in your relationships: https://victim2victor.net/the-chemistry-trap/
Book a call with me: http://calendly.com/v2vhealingjourney
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2v
Access all resources: https://linktr.ee/healing.journeyy